Cut to the chase-Are you sure?

An option is an option and will always remain an option.

And an option you'd agree is synonymous with back-up, so its always a compromise. No matter how much you try and make yourself feel that the purple dress highlights your toned shoulders and is really chic, you know deep down it could never match the scintillating red stunner of a dress you'd set your eyes on, saved up for and finally cursed yourself for not being able to fill up a size bigger than yours because as it happens the last piece in size S was bought off by some greedy bitch just an hour back. So now what... you settle for the next best alternative.. afterall its just a matter of threatening your hairdresser to wave the magic wand which will make thou the fairest of them all. At times when the almighty pities you and wants to ensure that you don't feel like a loser he sends a tall broad shouldered (read manly) yet okay looking person of the same sex wearing the exact same thing which makes you appreciate the fact that with a very slight percentage of the effort shes put in it'll be a cake walk for you to turn heads- Now if you try and decode that, its pure consolation.

Also an option is an option in the first place because you can get it easy. Why would i ever be in love with a pair of cotton pyjamas when I can shower my affection on my emerald green crushed silk dress. Although I'll still require my comfy pyjamas to sleep in and wear them on a lazy winter morning when all I want to do is have pizza in bed, but at no cost will I trade my green beauty for it.

However when an option is an option for the lack of other better options most women try and make-do with a first copy, they try hard to love it and treasure it and develop feelings which they previously had not known simply because it supports their whim and stands with them through thick and thin.

The modus operandi is known only to a few intelligent people who wear iron gloves before burning their fingers and snap out just when they begin to feel the heat.

And trust this coming from one of them: You might feel bad and at times sick that there is someone who cares for you so much that noone can equal it and you are just indifferent. That there is someone who looks at you and figures out when you're upset and then knows exactly what will cheer you up, but no matter how hard you try to feel love for them you just cant. At that point in life you may feel you've never known someone as insensitive as yourself. But don't be so hard on yourself, remember once an option always an option and don't let that keep you from finding the Red dress.